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Dating a 21 year old single mom - No Sex Rule
Second, I would introduce him to my kids after I decided he might be worth pursuing only - by the 3rd or 4th date. If the kids didn't like him - I dumped him. Thirdly, I would never allow them to bath my children. Potty time - questionable not likely.
Diaper Changes - No. Maybe once dating moved to the serious exclusive possible long term relationship thing for the last, but I didn't do it. When is it appropriate for the staying the night thing? See 1 and 2. My mom would and we would go there.
Even though I liked some of them it was so awkward. I always felt out of place. I heard them having sex when I was like 8 or 9. He became my step dad later on. Now they are divorced. My dad moved in with my now step mom when I was I moved in with my now dh when I was I just think it sets a bad example.
Plus you really should get to know the guy really well before you allow him around the kids. You just never know. It was amazing to me many guys ran just knowing I had a child.
In the 5 years I was a single mom I only brought 2 men home to meet my son. One of them is my DH of almost 9 years now. They find out about the kids and they usually bail. I brought home 2 people. One I dated and lived with for 4 years and the kids and he and I are all still friends and talk all the time. The other I am married to. Is it different if baby daddy is in the picture or if he's not part of baby's life? I see no difference whether my daughter's father is in the picture or not.
Not to sound snarky but if I want to date, I will and I don't really care what he has to say. We are divorced because he wanted to date while we were married: When is it appropriate to allow a man to spend the night in your home with your kids? When would you and your child spend the night in his home?
I'm not exactly sure when it would be appropriate for a man to spend the night in our home with us. I will tell whoever I may start dating that I have a child, likely when I first meet him. If he doesn't have kids of his own, he needs to know what he's going to be getting into, especially if he doesn't like kids. I'm sure there are guys out there that will pretty much take off as soon as you tell them you have kids, so its always good to weed those ones out right away: After I had found someone I'd been on a few dates with and felt comfortable with, I would likely introduce him to my daughter to see if she liked him, and I can tell very quickly whether she likes someone or not.
If she doesn't, its a deal breaker for me and the relationship would be over. When would you allow him to assist with bathtime, potty time, changing? When we're married probably?!? I don't want it to be a creepy "Can I help" kinda thing. I'm just curious what if any boundaries single moms establish to protect their children emotionally?
I said that was ok. She asked if I wanted to go out sometime. We went out the next weekend. After a few dates, she asked me if I wanted to go with her and her friends to a ball game sometime this summer.
After two months of not having much to do with each other due to scheduling conflicts, we finally found the time to go to a ball game. Once again her sister watched her kids. After the game, we stayed the night at a hotel in the city.
She came on to me and we had sex. For the last month, things have gotten pretty serious between me and her. My friends think I am crazy. They keep telling me that I have a great job, where beautiful girls my age throw themselves at me and instead I settle down with an older mom. I am physical fitness instructor and many of my clients are college females. Their skeptical views have made me question whether I should stay single and have some fun with the younger women or stay faithful to my girlfriend who I love and settle down, whilst helping her take care of her kids?
My girlfriend keeps talking about how she wants to marry me and have a baby with me. I would love to marry her, but I am unsure about having a kid. Her kids are already a handful. Samsa So your saying she is just using me for sex and to help her take care of her kids?
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I' m 21 dating a 34 year old single mother? Why do people frown upon it? :
After going there for a year I ended up with Bethany cutting my hair 4 times in a row. Maybe once dating moved to the serious exclusive possible long term relationship thing for the last, but I didn't do it. He, other than her father, was the first and only man she has seen me with.